10 years ago, I was asked by my grandma, when will I get married. I was little. "Mm Zai (I don't know in teochew)", I answered. She said, I should get married at 30. "Tai Lao Liao La (that's too old in teochew)", I shouted. She was amused and dispersed around to the neighbors.
Back in few years ago, I was perplexed that when should I get married. After considered really carefully, I have decided to get married in between 32 to 34. Yes, I fixed the plan and make it as a target to boost my financial stability before I get married.
Weeks ago, my uncle asked me when do I wanted to get married (due to relatives all getting married). I answered firmly, 32! You crazy, he shouted. Your son going to called you "ah gong(grandpa)".
Few days ago, one of my friend asked me, when will I get married. Again, I answered, 34! "chi sin ar you (are you crazy?), when you are 50 years old your son merely 16", my friend said.
Now I'm puzzled by this question again. However, I hope I could stick with my plan.
Since everyone is concerning the age gap between my children and I, then I have to think a way to reduce the gap and in the same time get married on my targeted age.
Haha!
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6 comments:
adopt me la...i can call u brother d
Haha then dun have children but then again nowadays a lot of ppl also married around that age so it should be a norm next time. Not to worry
joey : u also can be my grandpa..
sy : the norm is to have children first.. LOL.
wahahaha...ok then u can do that too have children first then your family won't be so worried
ok ok.. i will take your advice.. ^^
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